Is it normal for someone to keep in constant contact w/ an ex? December 25, 2009
I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months now. Throughout this time he’s been “conflicted” with feelings for his ex which he’s been broken up with since May of ‘05. I’m so tired of dealing with his “confusion”, should I just break it off for good? Oh, and he once told me he thinks about her during ***….
He’s obsessive -
I keep in normal contact with my ex. We talk almost every day. We are stil best friends. Good luck in all you do!
i talk to a few of my exes, and we are friends. My wife even knows and don’t care because i’m not fucking them
Kick his **** to the curb! That is so shallow its been over a year! Time to move on and find a man that wants YOU!
There is no way in hell you should be with him. Especially if he told you he thinks of her during sex, he should be castrated for that alone!! He cannot get over her, and he needs to be alone until he can get over her
Just tell him not to call you until he figures out you’re the one he’s interested in and, if you’re still unattached at that point, you’ll consider whether you’re interested in him. Find someone who knows who he wants … and that that person is you.
Not good, if he still thinks about his ex during sex, then there is definatly something wrong. Break it off, it is obvious that he still has feelings for her.
You need to get out of this relationship until he is ready to get over his feelings for the ex, he will never give you his heart until he stops loving the other.
Confront him with the matter and let him know that you are tired of being second. You deserve better and he needs to make a decision, or you make the decision.